Is your college student ready to stop passing assignments at 11:59pm and actually enjoy their time in college?
Executive Function Coaching for College Students
Executive function coaching is a holistic approach that helps your college student build a toolbox of systems and strategies that work for their brain so they can navigate academics, tackle the pile of laundry, get good sleep and still see friends on the weekend.
Does this currently sound like your college student?
They are intelligent & capable!
Your college student is bright. In high school, they didn’t need to study and they could get away with starting assignments right before the deadline. But in college, even with a major they’re excited about - navigating everything independently is too much.
When the overwhelm gets bad enough, they check out completely.
Video games. Scrolling. Staying up late with friends. Skipping class. Anything to avoid thinking about that paper, exam, or upcoming presentation.
Perfectionism holds them hostage.
If they can’t do it perfectly, they won't do it at all. Which sometimes means they avoid starting assignments or passing it in at all. I’ve even seen students get 90% done and not pass it in!
They don’t know how to ask for help.
They have resources and support available to them on campus (office hours, tutoring centers, accommodations), but they aren’t utilizing the support because they are overwhelmed and embarrassed.
They procrastinate on assignments.
They leave everything until the last possible minute. It's not laziness. Their brain craves urgency and a looming deadline to take action under pressure. This strategy can work sometimes, but it isn’t sustainable.
Behind the scenes, they are scrambling.
Getting zeros on small assignments they forgot about, avoiding opening emails, and withdrawing from classes.
As a parent, you aren't sure how to best support your college student
College is a unique time in a student’s life. It’s exciting, stressful, and a wonderful time to grow.
The tools and strategies that worked for them in high school, may not be the right fit in college.
As a parent, you want what’s best for your child. It’s so hard watching them struggle.
You want to encourage independence and set your college student up for success, but you aren’t sure how to find the right balance of offering support & letting them figure it out on their own. You don’t want to nag them (and you know they aren’t finding that type of support helpful, anyway!)
Executive Function Coaching is the missing piece for College Success (and post-graduation!)
Strong executive functioning means having the tools, strategies, and mindset to prioritize, organize and execute on responsibilities while still having time to enjoy the college experience.
Executive function coaching helps your college student build life skills that will support them after they graduate, too!
Learn how their brain works.
Once they learn why they get stuck, they can create individualized systems to manage their time, plan, prioritize, and take action. There is less blame, shame, and avoidance.
Prioritize self-care.
We take a proactive approach to self-care to try to minimize burnout, overwhelm, and paralysis. Self-care requires executive functioning; we talk about how to approach self-care even when it feels hard.
Break through what's keeping them stuck.
Perfectionism. Fear of failure. Overwhelm. Anxiety. Stress. Lack of clarity. We notice it, name it, and pull the right tool from their executive functioning toolbox to navigate challenges.
Take care of the whole picture.
Sleep. Meals. Exercise. Friends. Laundry. Executive function is involved in all areas of life, not just academics. We talk about all areas of life in our executive function coaching sessions.
Build realistic plans each week.
Together, we look at their calendar, syllabi, and inbox and create a plan they can actually follow. We talk about potential barriers & sticking points ahead of time.
Utilize Resources at College.
Asking for help is hard and requires a lot of executive functioning. We use coaching session time to email professors together, schedule tutoring appointments, and confirm accommodations are in place.
Your Life Changing Transformation Starts Here
There are a lot of misconceptions about why college students may struggle. It is not a reflection on how intelligent or hard working they are. It’s that they don’t have the right toolbox yet - that’s where executive function coaching comes in!
Strong executive functioning means having the tools, strategies, and mindset to prioritize, organize and execute on responsibilities while still having time to enjoy the college experience.
Client Testimonial
“Sarah was a crucial component of our son’s success in college. Our son had worked with other coaches, and did not benefit from that as much as from the work with Sarah.
Our son has a diagnosis of ADHD with accompanying executive function difficulties, and it used to be very hard for him to keep track of assignments and grades, hand them in on time, and have an understanding of how well he was doing.
Sarah was able to establish a rapport with him so that he was willing to learn new approaches to managing his time and work. He was willing to open up and communicate clearly with her about his difficulties as well as his successes.
Sarah was very patient and positive, and she had a number of different tools in her toolkit that she tried with him before finding an approach that worked for him. He then continued to use that approach more independently during the last year of university.
Sarah also coached him through interview prep and the application process for a six-month coop which provided him an excellent introduction into the professional world.”
-Pablo & Kathleen, Parents of a College Student
Hi, I’m Sarah Lovell, an Executive Function Coach for your College Student!
I'm glad you're here! I’ve been an executive function coach since 2014. I’ve supported college students through some of the most exciting and difficult years of their lives.
Grades are an important piece of college, but quality of life is much more important. That’s what I focus on as an executive function coach: helping your college student build a toolbox of strategies they can use throughout their lifetime.
Yes, we talk about strategies to prioritize their assignments, get to class on time, and problem solve when they feel stuck or overwhelmed, but executive functioning is also so much more than that.
I love getting to know my college students: their hobbies, interests, passions, and goals. That’s where we start, because I know how hard it can be to sit down with a stranger and admit you’re struggling.
I was a Type-A, overachieving, perfectionist throughout my academic career. School came very easily to me, until it didn’t. I had to learn how to ask for help.
With a Master's degree in Social Work, I have a deep understanding of how self-talk, mental health, and learning differences impacts executive functioning.
My background in social work guides my coaching practice. My primary goal as an executive function coach is to help my clients feel better about themselves, boost their confidence, and navigate challenges with self-compassion.
For ambitious professionals, overwhelmed college students, creatives, or perfectionists who want to make big changes in their life in a sustainable way.
A 3-month coaching package is the right fit for you:
(10) 50-minute zoom sessions where you get high-impact coaching and leave feeling calmer, more confident, and clear with your plan
Unlimited text/email/voice memo support so you have a coach in your back pocket whenever you feel stuck, need some guidance, or a little push
Extended support with monthly workshops, group coaching calls, co-working time, & guest experts inside the Stuck to Started Society
Investment starts at: $2400 ($800/month)
Executive Function Coaching College Student Testimonials
“ To anyone that is embarrassed about struggling with executive functioning, Sarah really normalized things for me and made me feel like I wasn’t alone in struggling with these things.”
- PAUL, PAST COACHING CLIENT
“This is what I wished I had growing up - a coach & mentor through my school years (that wasn’t my parent!). I highly recommend trying coaching for your child.”
- KATE, PARENT OF A COLLEGE STUDENT
“If someone told me I would be where I am now a year ago, I wouldn’t have believed it. I’ve accomplished so much; coaching changed my life. I learned new systems and strategies that actually worked for me. I even learned strategies to work through my perfectionism & imposter syndrome.”
- MANDY, RECENT COLLEGE GRADUATE ENTERING THE WORKFORCE
“I hired Sarah to support my rising Senior through his senior year. There is a lot going on with college applications, AP and Dual classes. Sarah was amazing. She was able to quickly establish rapport with my son and get down to business! She was so easy to communicate with and she kept me up to date on how my son was handling school and organizational planning and putting it into action. After about 8 weeks Sarah happily told us she didn't feel like my son needed her help. That's honest and amazing all at the same time. I would highly recommend her and I have her number ready to go if my son needs additional support as we move forward!
- KATHERINE, PARENT OF A COLLEGE STUDENT
Frequently Asked Questions:
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Executive functions are a set of cognitive skills that we rely on every single day to help us manage our daily lives. Executive function skills include planning, organizing, prioritizing, sustained attention, time management, task initiation, problem solving, and flexible thinking.
Executive function skills are learned throughout our lifetime and strengthened with practice. Sometimes people have challenges with their executive functioning skills which may make navigating school, work, and tasks in daily life more difficult and that's where an executive function coach comes in!
Executive function coaching involves self-reflection and learning and practicing concrete strategies to strengthen executive function skills with the support of a coach.
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Executive function coaching is appropriate for anyone who is interested in creating new systems and strategies to work towards academic, professional, or personal goals.
Clients who benefit most from coaching are open to working collaboratively with a coach and are interested in guided self-reflection (ex. thinking about their strengths and challenges).
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No, a diagnosis is not required to work with a coach.
I do have extensive experience working with individuals with diagnoses including:
ADHD
Anxiety
Learning disorders/ learning differences
Autism Spectrum Disorder/Asperger's
Post Concussion Syndrome
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Strategies to strengthen your executive function skills
Extra accountability, support, and a space to process and reflect
A specific, designated time to create a plan for the day/week/month & reflect on what is working (or what you may need to change)
A "push" when you might need one
Leaving each meeting with a solid, comfortable plan & strategies
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We use executive functioning skills across the board in our daily lives, so people have lots of different goals they want to address in coaching.
Most clients start coaching because they have specific “problems” they want to solve (ex. stop procrastinating, finish tasks/ assignments, arrive to meetings on time, keep better track of their schedule, remember things they need to do).
Once we start working together, clients often realize we can talk about a lot of daily tasks that involve executive functioning skills and strategies (ex. making time for self-care, getting chores done, re-starting hobbies, figuring out how to keep up with laundry).
The list of goals clients have worked on in coaching meetings is never ending! All goals are good goals :-)
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Coaching is individualized & each session is unique to match your learning style, personality, and goals; there is no curriculum.
Coaching sessions typically follow a similar structure each meeting:
Check-in: what went well since we last met, what was challenging, what concrete steps have you taken toward your goals, what are the next steps.
Goal setting & discussing strategies: creating a realistic plan of actions and systems to support your goals. We identify strategies, potential barriers, & possible ways to navigate challenges.
Working on tasks together: Sometimes clients find it helpful to start tasks during our meetings so we can talk about strategies in real time.
I am a firm believer that each person is an expert in themselves, so I ask a lot of questions to help my clients think about what has worked and not worked in the past. We create a plan together and adjust each week.
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Coaching is flexible; most of my clients meet once a week; others meet more or less frequently.
Some of my clients start with regular meetings once a week and then transition to every other week or "as needed."
Some clients work with a coach short term (3-6 months).
Some clients work with a coach longer term (1-4+ years).
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Coaching is not counseling/therapy.
Coaching focuses on concrete skills and strategies. While we do talk about stress, anxiety, burnout, and overwhelm - it is not from a therapy or counseling perspective.
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Coaching is not tutoring. I can’t help you solve a chemistry problem (but we can work together to figure out what resources are available to you, create and execute a plan together!)
Coaching teaches the "how" and tutoring teaches the "what." Coaching focuses on learning and applying new skills and strategies to improve academically, while tutoring often just focuses on the content being studied.
Coaching focuses on skills and strategies that are transferable. Clients build executive functioning skills that they will use in school, work, and their personal lives.
I’ve coached college students studying engineering, computer science, pre-med, history, chemistry, creative writing, and many other areas of study. I do not need to understand the content to help students strengthen their study skills or EF skills.
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My goal is to make sure that you find the right support. It’s important that both you and your future coach feel that working together is the right fit, which is why I offer free discovery calls to answer your questions about coaching and get to know your coach. If working together isn’t the right fit, I can share other resources.
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